Definition of SEDUCTION
1: the act of seducing; especially : the enticement of a person to sexual intercourse
3: something that attracts or charms
YUMMMO…just the definition of the word (according to Merriam Webster)…doesn’t it kind of make you shiver?
I read somewhere that seduction is the cousin to anticipation. I’d say that instead of cousin…anticipation is the Mother of seduction, the action that gives seduction life.
Anticipation is seductive in itself, thinking about something that is going to happen……can be almost as tantalizing and enthralling as doing it.
Anticipation trips the sensory breakers that seduce us and has us lusting for something.
We anticipate ourselves into seducing ourselves…follow that?
(Yeah –my thought process—-it’s kinda like a Japanese puzzle box.)
So many things can create the anticipation that will eventually seduce us into……what?
The smell of fresh baked bread or cookies…. the scent sends us into anticipating the flavor, the warmth exploding in our mouth and will seduce us into breaking a diet.
The anticipation of doing something that will give us an adrenalin rush can seduce us into doing things that may be…ummmm could be….not so bright.
A sexy smile can lead us to anticipate what the one who owns smile is like then lead us to at least seduce them into some banter for a minute or two with hopes, with anticipation, it might lead to more interaction that will bring on more seduction, both as the seducer and as the seduced.
We can be seduced by the most unusual “things”. Seduction isn’t just about being carnal (but that IS the best kind of seduction, eh?) needs.
Sounds can be seductive.
I hear the shower running,…..know one of my guys is in the shower, the anticipation…….it trips all kinds of sensory breakers for me, sends me into sensory overload. I anticipate water on their skin, the fresh clean scent after thy climb out…… that sight their naked wet body glistening wet, it will always entice me, seduce me into wanting to lick and bite them and this always seduces them into following me around like a puppy( even the one who isn’t “into pain play). They follow me around in anticipation I will move forward with the seduction.
I thrive on finding new ways to seduce my guys. Something that seems old hat….. can feel fresh and new if I just reshape the way I go abut the seduction. I enjoy getting lost in the day dream of thinking of new ways to seduce my guys…but then…. I get off on the chase and seduction is the key element of the chase.
Something that really appealed to me about adding the BDSM twist to my sexual relationship with my husband: It added new ways to seduce him.
Tease and denial may be the best part of the BDSM game because that is ~ALL~ about seduction.
One thing that never gets old…no matter how long the relationship has existed…….is finding new ways to seduce our partner. Seduction is an art that is perfected over time. The more you get to know your partner, the more you understand their inner workings the more the tenor becomes refined and smoothness of your own talents for seducing them become. There’s a point where the seduction becomes eloquently refined and quiet, that silent language between a couple who is comfortable with each other and knows how to convey a message without words and seduce each other without saying a thing. I’m a “people watcher” and I love spotting couples like this. It makes my heart race, makes me anticipate my next chance o do the same thing to one of my guys. Their seduction of each other, seduces me into wanting to seduce.
(Told ya…thought process like a Japanese puzzle box.)
And a final thought:
Some things to ponder:
How much does the art of seduction play into Safe. Sane and Consensual? Should seduction be part of getting to an agreement of SSC?
Would you rather be the seducer or the seduced?
Can you be one without the other? Sorta..it takes two to tango and seduction unanswered is maybe….well…maybe what?
(First thing that popped into my head after the question came to mind is seduction unanswered is possibly stalking? Ummm——-yikes.)