Category Archives: Processing


      10 Comments on Diminutive

  It’s not something I actively think about.  His build.  Mine.  Our differences. Oh, I can describe him.  And I do.  Often.  In terms that make corporeal sense. Lean. Sinewy…. Read more »


      7 Comments on BOOM

We are discussing ~ rationally, somewhat perfunctorily ~ oral sex – how to refocus on breathing so as to distract from the pressure against the tonsils, how to relax the… Read more »


      4 Comments on Static

. Static You are only coming through in waves Your lips move but I can’t hear what you’re saying – Pink Floyd, Comfortably Numb – . I wonder, when they… Read more »

The Things I Do Not Write

      10 Comments on The Things I Do Not Write

I write about hundreds of things.  Publicly, via this blog; intimately, through correspondence; privately, for myself. I do not write about hundreds more. A few, in no particular order: ~… Read more »

Return To Sender

      18 Comments on Return To Sender

Dear Da, My Love, To Whom It Hello, Stranger. For that is, in fact, who you have become.  Of your own accord.   Communications between us once flowed like glacial… Read more »

Hard To Swallow

      18 Comments on Hard To Swallow

Thoughts link, chained haphazardly one to the next, and I let my mind drift.  Things I’ve been meaning to write – my mishaps with not-exactly-polyamory, coming to terms with the… Read more »


      10 Comments on Starfish

When the tide goes out, thousands of starfish, having crept close to shore in search of food, are stranded on the beach. Every day at low tide, a man walks… Read more »