Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2017

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The list is HERE!

(and I’m on it!)

A very special thank you to Molly Moore, who – in addition to running her own site and hosting several other sex-positive, body-positive, and kink-positive blogging projects – takes the time (and it is time-consuming; I can’t even imagine!) to curate this list on a yearly basis.  Please take the time to check out her work and to peruse this year’s Top 100 list.

You can click the badge above to read the details and accolades in their entirety, or read below the jump to see the list.  I’ve already found fantastic new sex(y) content creators to follow – I hope you will too!

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Event Horizons

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SUBSPACE:  The Black Hole of the D/s Universe

(In which, a not-very-Domly-Domme McSpankypants shares her mental meanderings on subspace.)

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Asking Nicely

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FAIR WARNING:  The photos in this post are most definitely NSFW.  If you choose to read on, be aware that nekkid Feve ensues.

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I sent the following to my spouse before leaving for work yesterday:

text message containing nude photo of woman reclining under Christmas tree

text message including photo of woman's leg covered in flower petals

text message with "ask nicely" selfie

When I got home that afternoon, he met me at the top of the stairs with soft lips, a hard cock, and – from the touchy-feely octopussing I experienced – approximately eight hands.

“Those were sexy pictures you sent, hon,” he said, attempting to maul my face with kisses.

Leaning in close, I gave him my best sultry look (I am forever forgetting to practice this expression in front of mirrors, so by ‘sultry look’, really I mean ‘I looked like I was half asleep and/or slightly drunk’), pitched my voice sweet and low, and asked…

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So, d’you mind if I pour wax on you?

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(This is not an abnormal conversation starter in my household.)

“Uhmmm…?” he replied.
I raised my brow at this non-response.
“Is this for your blog?” he asks.
(Astute, he is.)

:: pause ::

“I won’t burn you,” I promise.
“Okay then.”

That was last weekend.

So today we went shopping.  Which might have been a slightly irrational proposition given that I hate people-ing, especially after Thanksgiving, but it was surprisingly un-horrible.  Besides, most folks who frequent my favorite sex shop can’t be arsed about holiday shopping quite yet.  I mean, I know *I* can’t.  They don’t even have their real sales until mid-December.

Which means it was with considerable maneuvering room and relative ease that we found these massage oil candles:

Shunga massage wax candle

I bought two – one scented in ‘Zenitude’ (no clue what that means, exactly, but think ‘fresh’) and another in au chocolat.

I read the instructions (I do that occasionally ~ ssshhhh, don’t tell anyone), which recommended burning the wick for 20 minutes before proceeding.

Shunga massage candle burning

I’m actually quite good at math, and I can count to twenty (as well as read a clock)…


…there was a whole “Come look at these Christmas lights and give me your opinion” thing that happened in between the lighting of the candle and its intended use that took up a good half hour.  Because, Smotch.

The good news:  the wax didn’t get over-hot during the excess futzing-about time.

The not-so-good news:  the mood didn’t get over-hot during the excess futzing-about time.



On with the show!

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bridge at night with reflections of light on water beneath


Reflecting on the past year…

Today, I am thankful for:

waters bridged

lights shined

life celebrated

all those who I am privileged to call Mine




Happy Thanksgiving

Elust #100

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Photo courtesy of Wriggly Kitty

Welcome to Elust 100

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #101 Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

He’s Out of My League

Pink Hair, Don’t Care!

I’m a feminist but…

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Pain Sluts and Brain Squirrels

His Car Keys

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~


*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

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