At The Edge

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“Do you mind if I blindfold you?” I’d asked.

My spouse had eagerly agreed.

I’d taken taken his sight, taken photos, then taken my time — taking his hard inside my heat while he took delight in the buzzing stillness created by the unsighted heightened assuefaction of his remaining senses.

He’d taken guidance – from sound and touch, pressure and inflection, softness and sting and kinetic execution of sensory commands – until I’d felt the burst-edge beginning of my orgasm spring to life and decided it was my turn again to take.

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Have Imagination, Will Travel

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A story is the only transportation I require.

mirrored photo of bare-legged woman reading

Comfort imperative.  Clothing optional.

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      8 Comments on Chiaroscuro

woman's profile, with curly hair creating shadow on face


shadows fall unstraight,

stroking sunlit skin like wisps

of mem’ry,

chiaroscuro silhouettes

reminiscent of a lover’s touch

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Feve’s 5

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. . . to a blog near you . . .

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It is a much-maligned flavor, a word used to indicate blandness or banality, as though it is a pleasure-less humdrum insult to one’s oh-so-refined tastes regardless of what contextual table is being set.  It is all too often a “lifestyle” designation.  A unit of language not so much spoken as spat, a one-up measure used to other-ize, to the point where those on the receiving end of its pursed-lip condescension feel the need to apologize for their flavor, or – worse – begin to believe that nobody will ever find their particular vanilla-y taste appealing.

“I’m pretty vanilla” is often accompanied by an apologetic shrug; “I’m sorry I’m so vanilla” is said with a cringing self-effacing tone meant to pre-emptively deflect ridicule.  I have heard a countless number of these remorseful defenses in recent years, and it’s an enlightening commentary on the elitism too often found in members of certain self-described non-vanilla communities that this continues to happen.

If you are one of the people for whom such regretful rejoinders have become second nature, this message is for you:  Vanilla is a lot of things (I’ll get to some of them in a moment), but it is nothing – NOTHING – to apologize for.

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Deprivation, Delight

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. . . of the senses . . .


blindfolded man suckling woman's breast


His loss is my gain.

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Elust #102

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Welcome to Elust 102

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #103 Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Baby, baby…

O Come All Ye Faithful

Christmas Eve


~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Not “only” CP

Whispered Obscenities

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Happily Barren


*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

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