Why?
No, seriously… Why? It’s a good question to ask yourself.
Do you want a threesome so you can experience a specific sensation? (DP, DVP, spitroasting, being sandwiched, etc.) Do you want to be the center of attention? Perhaps you’d like to gift your partner with being the center of attention? Or are you doing it to please your partner, just going along? (Danger, Will Robinson!)
Are you ticking boxes off your bucket list, and figure, what the hell, why not? Is compersion your thing? Perhaps you are a hedonist?
Is this about your self esteem? Or maybe your ego? Are you testing yourself? Do you desire an intro to the swingles scene?
Do you get off on watching? Being watched?
Maybe you kink to something your partner isn’t into, and want to try pegging/fisting/rimming/CBT/insert-kink-here with someone else but still have your partner be part of it? Do you want to be able to Dom/me two subs at a time? Sub to two Dom/mes?
Can you answer any of these questions? Have you even thought about them?
If yes, please continue reading. If no, kindly go back to the beginning, turn on your brain (it’s inside your head – the one that sits on your shoulders), and think about it. Knowing where you’re coming from will help you – and your partners – to choose a direction everyone is comfortable with, and you’ll all be much more likely to have your threesome experience be a good one.
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