Chocugasms, Etc

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Generally speaking, I believe there are two things that can cure all ills. One or the other (or both in tandem) somehow manage to soothe and sustain me regardless of the problem at hand: Orgasms and Chocolate.

(Let the record state that Mrs Fever prefers the former over the latter, but welcomes the opportunity to indulge in both luxuries simultaneously.)

In case you’d like to try this remedy at home (or in a hotel room or at the drive-in or in the back seat of a car): Got a headache? Have an orgasm. Back hurts? Orgasm. Feeling grouchy? Stressed? Tired? An orgasm will lift your spirits, calm your nerves, and energize your body. If, by chance, you feel like crying, an orgasm will bring a smile to your face. I could go on (and on and on and on…I have amazing stamina), but I think you get the point. And if, per chance, you do not have a willing partner at (heh) hand, let your fingers do the walking.

Unless, of course, you fear that orgasmic activity may result in your arrest. Not that it’s *not* fun to play with hand cuffs, but some folks are not into that sort of thing. So if you’re on the subway or at the book store, or in a crowded restaurant, you might want to go with Plan B (which is a spectacular movie, by the way…but I digress): Chocolate.

le Chocolat.

Milky or dark, liquid or frozen, in whatever quantity you have on hand. And, erm… With or without (heh) nuts.

So, to review: If something is ailing you, all you need to do to improve your outlook on the situation is have an orgasm and/or consume some chocolate-y goodness.

That said…

Prior to this past week (which is when I got run over by the Mack truck of life), I lived (and moaned and came and shuddered and shivered) by this philosophy. With the possible exception of morning breath (that particular malady can only be eradicated via vigorous tooth-brushing), I truly believed the big O was the answer to whatever ailed me. And if it that didn’t work, a liberal dose of ‘vitamin’ C would suffice.

I still think that, I suppose. But once upon a time I thought this regimen could cure anything in anyone.

And maybe that’s true.

For humans.

Unfortunately, I don’t think my medicines will cure malaise in other species.

And what other species, you are wondering, are you referring to, Feve?

My husband, for one. (Yes, I really do think he’s a different species. Different sex, different schmex. The Mister is from another planet.) My pets for another. I may be coo-koo for Cocoa Puffs, but I’m not cuckoo enough to give cocoa to my pup. And yes, I like to pet my puss, but there’s NO WAY I’m gonna go there.

You see, here’s the thing: My kitty (the one with four legs) has been given six months to live; my puppy (who is actually quite ancient) is losing cognitive function…which means she truly is a crazy bitch. My husband ~ based on his recent emotional state ~ is either taking this news *really* hard or is going through man-o-pause. Or possibly it’s a combination of both…?

The good news is that Dementia Dog and Cancer Cat are blissfully unaware that anything is wrong with either of them. My spouse, however, is freaking the fuck out. And frankly, the whole fam-damily is giving *me* a headache.

So in the event I happen to be posting sporadically for a while, please bear with me. It’s because I’m going to be very, very busy. Curing my headache. And heartache. And any and every other ill that may befall me.

Yes, I think in the near future I’m going to be very busy, indeed.

With orgasms and chocolate.

Yup

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The events of my life ~ or at least of the past few days ~ can be summed up in a few quotes.

Knowledge is clothed, wisdom naked.  (Aris Fioretos) 

I now pronounce you man and wife.  Proceed with the execution.  (John Huston) 

I am the Duchess of Smutchess.  (Mrs Fever)

Yup.  (Mr Fever)

It’s probably better if you don’t ask.

Please Ignore This Post

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There is no such thing as a naked truth. It is shrouded in the gossamer wisps of individual perception; it’s honest beauty a guileless ingenue, costumed for its audience. Truth is subjective. It is inhibited by our own limitations. It is viewed through the lenses of our own experiences.

There is a difference between truthfulness and honesty, though for one to be honest it is expected that one tells the truth. But the truth I have to tell is only the truth as *I* see it. I cannot see out from behind your eyes, particularly considering that *your* eyes are closed. Forever. I must, as always, rely on my own.

But you would appreciate that sentiment, I think. ‘On my own’ was a phrase you repeated religiously, after all. But was it pride in the fact that you made your own way? A simple statement of truth? (The truth as only you knew it.) A shameful admission? A declaration of loneliness?

(My version of the) Truth be told, I believe, in hindsight, that it was some combination of all of the above. I believe the self-reliance that was required of you as a child was a crutch you leaned on your entire life. Better to isolate yourself than risk pain or loss, right? But the choice not to love kept you alone long after you were grown. And now *I’m* grown. And I believe you missed out on someone fantastic when you turned your back on me.

Yes, you turned your back on me. You did so officially when I was twelve years old, but the truth ~ MY truth ~ is that it did not require a 180 degree turn. Because I never had face time with you, even before that fateful day when you walked away. I was only ever really allowed to see you in profile. And now I’m left to wonder what was hiding in your eyes.

I may never know.

What I *do* know is that your funeral is tomorrow. I will not be there to say goodbye. I see no point in it, because there was never a hello, and because you said goodbye to me long ago.

And that, I’m afraid, is the gossamer shroud of my truth that will costume your grave.

I’ve said my piece.

Rest in peace.

Forrest Gump Was Wrong

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Life is not ~ I repeat, NOT ~ like a box of chocolates.

Life is like a maniacally screeching monkey. You never know when it’ll start flinging poo at you.