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bridge at night with reflections of light on water beneath


Reflecting on the past year…

Today, I am thankful for:

waters bridged

lights shined

life celebrated

all those who I am privileged to call Mine




Happy Thanksgiving

Elust #100

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Photo courtesy of Wriggly Kitty

Welcome to Elust 100

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #101 Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

He’s Out of My League

Pink Hair, Don’t Care!

I’m a feminist but…

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Pain Sluts and Brain Squirrels

His Car Keys

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~


*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

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This is what happens when my pussy needs attention.

Eyeing the box containing my newest vibrator as I enter my bedroom, it occurs to me – and not for the first time today – that my pussy needs attention.

I’ve only used it twice since we bought it together – the first time with him watching through the lens of his camera, the second time by myself in combination with my favorite glass toy – and the sight of my newest mini vibe ~ small, powerful, and shockingly purple ~ triggers an idea:  This might be just the thing to jump start my afternoon.

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‘Love’ might be too strong a word.

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So there’s this thing that happens once yearly in blogging, called LOL Day.  LOL, in this instance, does not mean Llamas Out-cute Lions or Licks Only Lollipops.  It also does not mean, as more than one well-meaning grandparent-type has thus misused the abbreviation, Lots Of Love.

‘Love’ is in the acronym though:  LOL stands for Love Our Lurkers.  And today is LOL Day.  🙂

For me…  Well, let’s just say that ‘love’ might be too strong a word.  I mean, I kind of have to know a person to love them, and by definition, blog lurkers are folks who don’t make themselves known, so I can’t honestly say “I love you” when I don’t know you, right?

I like you, though.  😀

So to you (yes You, who show up in this little cloud-world space of mine to read or perv or quietly observe) who lurk about in the shadows:  THANK YOU.  For being here.  For reading around and clicking about and generally offering your silent support throughout my tenure as a blogger.  Truly, thank you.  I think you’re awesome.


If you are one of the ones who are typically silent, or if you haven’t commented in quite some time, or are otherwise timid or shy or just not quite sure what to say:  Now is your time.

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Peace of Mind

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Peace of mind has never been anything I’ve ever strived for, but…

It’s like happiness, y’know…  Happiness isn’t something that you try to strive for.  It’s the end result of doing something which makes you happy.  You know?  You follow me?

In that same way, peace of mind isn’t something that you strive for.  It’s something that you acquire if you’re doing something that, in the end, that – in the end product or at the end of the line – brings you peace of mind.

~ Bob Dylan, 1984


Animal Instincts

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Why I love my friends, Reason #476:


funny whatsapp conversation about veterinarian


It’s good to have goals…