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It’s in the way he bites his lip…

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He tells me I tease.

Not that I *am* a tease.

But that I tease.

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Elust #91

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Welcome to Elust 91

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #92 Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Forcing Growth

In Stitches

The Instrument and the Ornament



~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Imagine? You Might Wish You Hadn’t!
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~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Morning Stretch

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All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

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So you want to have a threesome.

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No, seriously…  Why?  It’s a good question to ask yourself.

Do you want a threesome so you can experience a specific sensation?  (DP, DVP, spitroasting, being sandwiched, etc.)  Do you want to be the center of attention?  Perhaps you’d like to gift your partner with being the center of attention?  Or are you doing it to please your partner, just going along?  (Danger, Will Robinson!)

Are you ticking boxes off your bucket list, and figure, what the hell, why not?  Is compersion your thing?  Perhaps you are a hedonist?

Is this about your self esteem?  Or maybe your ego?  Are you testing yourself?  Do you desire an intro to the swingles scene?

Do you get off on watching?  Being watched?

Maybe you kink to something your partner isn’t into, and want to try pegging/fisting/rimming/CBT/insert-kink-here with someone else but still have your partner be part of it?  Do you want to be able to Dom/me two subs at a time?  Sub to two Dom/mes?

Can you answer any of these questions?  Have you even thought about them?

If yes, please continue reading.  If no, kindly go back to the beginning, turn on your brain (it’s inside your head – the one that sits on your shoulders), and think about it.  Knowing where you’re coming from will help you – and your partners – to choose a direction everyone is comfortable with, and you’ll all be much more likely to have your threesome experience be a good one.

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Good Boy

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The pressure of my bladder – full, but not uncomfortable – nudges me toward consciousness.  Keeping my eyes closed against the morning, I slowly untwist my body beneath the tangled sheets until I am lying on my back with my legs butterflied open.

My body is warm from sleep, thrumming with arousal.  No longer dreaming, not quite awake, I caress my belly, palm pressing lightly against my lower abdomen before my fingers trail lower explore my swollen clit and creamy cunt.

A sigh escapes my lips, and as my fingertips swirl and stroke, my mind – full of half-dreams and memories – dips and turns along with my hands in an erotic fantasy dance.

There is no set sequence, nor any single partner on whom I focus.  Instead, I revel in the mixed sensations my body is experiencing and allow my thoughts to drift, thinking of…

His mouth at my breast, suckling as though to feed, the pull of his mouth sending interwoven threads of pleasure-pain from my nipple to my navel

His cock, hot and hard, trickling pre-cum against my thigh while he moves his mouth against mine and fills me with his fingers…

Him, seated and restrained, begging for me to sink hot and tight down onto his shaft as I tease him in a delicious frottage, allowing him to only just barely graze my entrance on each slick upward slide…

Me, bent forward with my belly against the mattress, fighting the conflicting sensations of being bladder-full and cunt-empty, wanting desperately for him to push his thick heat inside my fiery wet…

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Ask me anything. Just don’t ask me for a book recommendation.

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I am surrounded by books.  I travel with them, I sleep with them, I snack with them. There are books on my bedside table, books on the side table in the living room, books on shelves, books on counters, books in my car.  If you are in my home, you will see books everywhere you look.  They are constant companions, they suit any mood.  Books are my preferred form of entertainment.

I can tell you a lot of things about books:  how they’re bound, what they’re worth, why they are important.  I am always reading something – usually several somethings – and, if I’m in the proper mood, will be happy to answer your questions about what that something is, whether I like it, and why.

Recommending something for you to read, however, is a whole ‘nother story.

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