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*This* is a sticky post. (Keep comments about the stickiness of *your* post to yourself, please.) It was the first post I wrote on this blog space and it’s a permanent fixture on my home page for two reasons: (1) It clearly outlines my rules (please read them if you haven’t already), and (2) It helps a very specific group of people find me.
Genesis, Exodus, Commandments, Etc.
The Genesis of this blog came about due to my Exodus in 2012 from the blog hub hosted by an adult site where my spouse and I once had a profile.
One thing I learned from my experience there is that internet anonymity is one of the leading causes of asshole-ery in otherwise normal people.
So when I mosied like Moses, I decided to set a few guidelines. My own personal 10 Commandments, kinda. Except there’s not ten, only three. And they’re not commandments, exactly. Just a few rules, that clearly outline my expectations. (Which should be common sense. But common sense is becoming more and more uncommon in the internet age.)
So without further ado…
1. I am a PERSON. Not an OBJECT. Treat me as such.
2. While I’m usually pretty fun-loving and don’t take things too seriously, I am still a REAL PERSON with REAL FEELINGS. Interact with me as such.
3. Do not make the assumption, based on the topics I discuss here, that I am ‘available’. I am not. I am MARRIED to a REAL PERSON with REAL FEELINGS. Respect us as such.
Also, don’t steal stuff.
These rules apply to ALL interactions and exchanges, including but not limited to blog comments, emails, and other bitland conversations. Anyone who feels they cannot follow these rules is free to leave at any time. Deliberate ignorance of these rules will result in banishment from the Land of Fever.
And in the spirit of Genesis and Exodus, as mentioned above: Mrs. Fever has spoken. So it has been written; so it shall be done. 😉