Three-Ring Circus

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three concentrically graduated cock rings

Photo courtesy of Dokurtybitz

NOTE/WARNING/DISCLAIMER:  This post is about dicks.  Specifically, about how I prefer to use cock rings on the dicks I play with.  To be perfectly clear, I do not care about YOUR dick.  Seriously, I do NOT care.  Kindly do NOT, as a result of reading this manifest, behave like a twatwaddle and send me ridiculous unsolicited bullshit featuring your dick.

(It’s ludicrous that I should even have to say that, but such is the world in which we live.  Twatwaddles.  Everywhere.)

Mmmmkay?

Moving on!

So:  Cock Rings

To begin with, I need to emphasize that the point of a cock ring is to keep a cock at attention.  Basically, a cock ring serves to enhance hardness.

In my experience, men tend to have three ‘levels’ of Hard:

  • Hard (Enough):  This falls somewhere between “uncooked sausage” and “pudding pop(sicle)” – it’s good enough to get the job done, but lacks a certain joi de oomph.
  • HARD:  Think along the lines of thick and throb-y.  This level is emphatically hard.  Swollen.  Focused.  Driven.  Ice would not banish this erection, at least not without total extended submersion.
  • HARDEST:  Blood is no longer flowing anywhere but in his cock.  It’s engorged, past the point of swollen, hard enough to pound nails.  This is a cock that’s ready to fuck someone into the ground.  Repeatedly.  And it’s sensitive, especially at the tip.

There are ways of getting to each of these levels without the aid of cock rings (and I may post about those techniques another time), but *with* a ring – and the appropriate amount of interest – HARD is achieved relatively quickly, and HARDEST can be maintained (or strengthened!) over an extended period of time.

I happen to like the feel of HARD under my hands, and when I get my partner to HARDEST, I can tease him mercilessly because of the enhanced sensitivity.  One of the ways to help him reach that NoNoStopDon’tStop state of hardness is to use cock rings.

What kind?

There are a variety of rings available, of course.  Some have vibrating attachments, others are single tube lariat-style adjusters, a few are ridged or bumped.  There are dual rings, that are intended for cock and balls, and there are single rings available in a multitude of sizes, thicknesses, colors, and materials.

The ones I like the best are the three-ring sets, as pictured above.

I like these because I have the option of using one (or one at a time), or combining them any way I wish.  And yes, I said I.  While my partners are welcome to use the rings on their own, it’s really about my pleasure when we’re together.  And I derive a significant amount of pleasure from driving him crazy.

Three-packs typically come (heh) in concentrically graduated sizes.  The largest diameter ring can be worn around the ‘entire’ cock and balls, essentially wrapping from the root of his cock to under his scrotum, encompassing his testicles.  The midsize ring is for pushing down over his erection, snugging around the base of his cock.  The smallest one *can* be used for the same purpose as the midsize (depending on his girth, the size/flexibility of the ring itself, and his tolerance levels), or it can be used as a glans ring.

I have been known to use two rings together, often to intriguing effect.

I have also, periodically, used all three at once.  This typically results in exclamations of “Rmphgrww–! !!”and “Umngggrwh amnr frmmnngh…?!?!”

Which, if you don’t speak Overloaded Oxytocin or Mind-Bent Pleasured Male, roughly translates to “I have no idea what you’re doing to me but it’s goodsogoodsoOHMYGODdon’tstop,” and “Waitwaitwait I wanna cum but fuckfucksensitive, I’m sensitive, DON’T EVER STOP!”

Heh.  😉

(I’ll bet you had no idea I was such a linguistic genius.)

Sensitivity

Have you caught on yet to the idea that cock rings can enhance sensitivity?

Sometimes it really can be JustTooMuch™, but when he’s HARDEST, and *that* sensitive with the rings on, it’s hard for me to resist torturing him just the teensiest bit.

With, say…

  • inserting the tip of my pinky into his slit and fucking his tip with my finger,
  • rubbing the palm of my hand in a circular motion over his sensitized head,
  • stroking upward – only upward – along his shaft, rubbing my thumb up over his frenulum with every slide over his glans,
  • massaging his balls and turn-slide-ing my hand up and down his shaft in a slow-mo push-pull fashion,
  • running my tongue along his ridge,
  • sucking only his head into my mouth while tugging on his balls,
  • tongue-fucking his urethral hole,
  • and any other thing that comes to mind, with the end goal of making him shiver and jump and beg and generally lose his ability to speak properly.

Can I do those things without cock rings?

Yes.

But  sometimes they’re more fun with the rings on.

It’s a veritable three-ring circus (sir-kiss?) of pleasure.

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Do you have experience(s) with cock rings?
What type do you prefer?

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20 thoughts on “Three-Ring Circus”

  1. Collaredmichael

    I use a cock ring all the time. Mine is a bit elastic and goes around both cock and balls. Sometimes if we start to get busy and I’m caged, I am stuck with the base ring used to hold the cage on. It is smaller (slightly) than my ring of choice and because it’s stainless steel, it has no give. My erections are always hardest with that ring.

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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      No-give style rings, similar to the base rings on chastity devices, are available individually for purchase if you know where to look. The idea of using one on/with my partner is intriguing. I’ve not yet tried it though.

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  2. Dok Urtybitz

    My only experiences prior to getting that set was all negative. They’d hurt or pinch, and getting them off severe pain. But yes I do love using them and it amazes me how hard I can get using them,,although I still have a problem getting my balls through (or stay through) the large ring. Well that will be fun for another time accompanied by much Rmphgrww-Umngggrwh-ing *twitch-twitch*

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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      Heh. Good thing I’m such an excellent translator. 😉

      Cock rings, or any sex toy really… Like with most things in life, quality is key. 🙂

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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      They can be a great deal of fun. 🙂

      I recommend a quality material, like nitrile or silicone, to assure a better fit and avoid discomfort (as Dokurtybitz described above). Also, something I didn’t mention in the post: use lube!

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  6. Molly

    I have absolutely no experience with cock rings but I seem to have managed to tempted Michael into giving them a go so now all we need to do if find a good one to start with.

    Mollyx
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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      I would recommend something in a material that’s slightly stretchy but firm. The cheap ones are usually either too tight and uncomfortable or they aren’t firm enough to restrict the blood flow. Plus they tend to contain pthalates.

      It can be overwhelming to choose something at first. If it’s any help: The set pictured in this post are nitrile (which is the go-to in the U.S. for those with latex allergies) and cost about $20. Flat-band silicone rings (wider and flat along the circumference) in a similar size pack run about $30.

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  8. Bee

    We’ve never been that bothered by them in the past but having read this maybe I could convince him to give them ago, something tells me he may enjoy it.
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  9. Bill

    Parsing,….. Please wait,….. Parsing
    According to the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy stress can be a problem.
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    They can each have multiple meanings.
    I have never used a cock ring. The appearance seemed daunting even with lube.

    I have seen one in use. The guy seemed to stay hard, but he was into receiving anal and that was like trying to fuck a keyhole.

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