FemDom, Cuckoldry, Polyamory, MFM, FLR, and WTF

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‘Kaysooo…

Robbie Williams

Mmmm… Robbie Williams. Eye candy. You’re welcome.

LOTS of stuff has come up for me over the past week, in conversations both on- and off-blog, because of all the great leads and segues and offshoots and branches (and whatnot) from the various posts you’ve been reading here on the topic of Coming Out.

And me being…  Well, ME…  I figured now was the time to bring some of those things to the fore – to “come out” myself, a l’il bit – because, thoughts.  Thoughts.  Are jamming.  Mah brains. Continue reading →

Hiding and Coming Out

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A Guest Post by Kanienke

Meet my good friend Ganien. (He's beary thoughtful.)

Meet my good friend Ganien (Kanienke). He is beary thoughtful, and is probably the person with whom I share the most secrets.

Kanienke is, to paraphrase Shrek, sort of like an onion.  To say he has layers is an understatement; just don’t expect those layers to have anything to do with clothing.

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We have been friends for a long time.  We met via blogging, and though he has probably written more words on my blog than on his own in recent months, he does still occasionally share his thoughts in that space.  He writes about love and sex and relationships, and is one of the most compassionate communicators I have ever encountered.  Clicking the picture above will link you to his blog.  Happy reading!

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HIDING AND COMING OUT

Every day when I get home, the first thing I always do is to peel off my clothes.  I don’t really like Continue reading →

Working Out The Kinks

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A conversation about Coming Out of the dungeon about your Darker Desires,
with Fatal

Femme-Fatal(e)

Fatal writes – beautifully, erotically, provocatively – about her journey into submission with honesty and vulnerability. Click the pic to read her blog.

I had a discussion recently {my questions in blue} with my favorite Femme Fatal(e) about how she Came Out as a kinkster.  What follows are threads from that conversation.  To pull at them further, please visit her blog.

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So in terms of “coming out” as kinky (or about specific desires, fetishes, fantasies), I’ve noticed sort of… a pattern(?)… That’s not the right word, really.  But generally, it goes like this: Continue reading →

I Have Something I Need To Talk To You About

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A Guest Post by Jamie Ray

A Boy And Her Dog

Jamie is the author of A Boy And Her Dog, a blog about traversing the border between butch and transgender.

I appreciate Jamie’s straightforward style; the tough stuff is not avoided, even when tackling the issues means getting tackled back.  I encourage you to click the pic and explore some more.

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I HAVE SOMETHING I NEED TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT

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I’ve had two cycles of coming out, once as a butch lesbian when I was 17, and again as Continue reading →