P is for Prostate Problems
If you are a man, and you are past a certain age, prostate problems are not so much a matter of ‘if’ they happen but of ‘when’. Pretty much, having a problematic prostate is a given at some point between the ages of 40 and 80 (most men experience it in their 50s and 60s but it can happen at any time, really): it’s just a matter of {1} when said problems will manifest, and {2} what form they will take.
Two of my partners have experienced prostate problems:
- My husband found, after a routine examination and blood testing, that he had an elevated PSA. There’s a lot to that story, including two biopsies and the bloody aftermath of the second, but as of his most recent (last month) urology appointment, the point is (still) moot.
- My paramour, who experienced problems with his prostate in his 40s, came into my life long after the resultant surgery (and subsequent changes to his sex life as a result) had taken place. In some ways his was a more severe situation than my husband’s, and is something he still needs regular check-ups for.
When their individual problems arose, neither my spouse nor my S.O. really knew what they were in for, I don’t think. And as a partner, I didn’t really know what to expect.
So for the purposes of this post, I’m just going to share some information. Not so much for the purpose of educating others (though you might learn something!) but with the intention of sharing my experience. Because you – or a loved one – might be (now or in the future) and over-40 male, and maybe knowing what this looked like for another person/partner will be helpful to you (or to me, as a reminder!) in the future. 🙂
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