Meet The Missus

Mrs Fever B&W

Q:  WHO IS MRS FEVER?

Short Answer:  The author of this blog.

For a more in-depth answer, and for more information about what you’ll find here on this blog, please read on.

A bit about Me:

I am easily distracted entertained (look, a puppy!) and love to laugh.

I excel at eskimo kisses.

I have opinions and I’m not afraid to use them. Fortunately, I possess both the vocabulary and the wherewithal to express them.  😉

Language was my first love, and I have had a life-long infatuation with words.

Other loves… Well, let’s just say I am an ethical non-monogamist.

Oh… and coffee.

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My husband is my family of choice. He’s an Aquarius. (He’s also a walking fire hazard. And while sometimes his hose won’t squirt, he’s otherwise pretty healthy. He had a kidney transplant in 2019 and we are still navigating all the changes that have entailed.) We were pet parents for 16 years; now, however, we are empty-nesters. (Though the neighborhood birds continue their valiant attempts to nest with us.)  🙂

My family of origin is… Complicated. Sometimes I write about them.

Labels are also complicated. If you want to know which ones I wear where relationships and sexual proclivities are concerned, see here.

Otherwise, I wear the label of female (AFAB, het/cis) and my preferred pronouns are she/her.

What you should know as a reader:

This blog is primarily about love, SEX, and relationships. The emphasis has shifted over the course of the years, and I’m not much interested in sex right now due to menopausal ‘meh’ and other life stresses, but SEX is capitalized for a reason, eh? 😉

Therefore, please be aware that this is an adult-oriented blog, written by an adult for other adults. If you come across ‘adult’ topics on this blog, don’t be surprised. (And if you don’t like the adult content you read/see here, you can act like an adult and click that handy-dandy little ‘x’ in the top corner of your browser.) I may have the sense of humor of an adolescent but I’m very much a grown-up. 😉

What else?

My marital relationship is a bit unconventional and my interactions with my husband – with whom I’ve been paired for over 17 years – feature often in this space.

A bit about us:

In the morning we wake like bears coming out of hibernation. 😉

We strive for balance, which is both easier and more difficult with time.

We are imperfect, both individually and together.

Sometimes we make mistakes. More often, we get it right.

We accept one another’s fallibility.

We try our best to face our challenges with humor and heart.

On the whole, we make each others’ lives better.

Fitness…  Well, some ways of working out are more fun than others, yes? (And some forms of sport are not actually ‘sports’ at all.  Heh.) You won’t find either of us in a gym, at least not voluntarily. But we are particularly fond of exercising the muscles in our heads (which is part of the reason we don’t hold a subscription to cable television).

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33 thoughts on “Meet The Missus

  1. tandd_cbt

    You must have removed said profile on said “adult site” As all of a sudden **poof** you vanished into thin air. I even looked under my computer all I found was dust bunnies…and speaking of bunnies, I see you won a bunny or a rabbit. I bet you rushed right out to get some batteries.
    Cause all good bunnies require batteries of course. Vrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      I *so* want a Rabbit! 🙂

      And speaking of bunnies, there’s a T&D blog here on wordpress that you might like. 😉 It’s called Denying Thumper. Here’s the link if you want to check it out: http://denyingthumper.com/

      As for the other place… It’s a long and not-very-interesting story… The end result? We decided it was time to go.

      Thank you for coming to visit me here! I hope you’ll return.

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  2. Adam Engel

    I like this site. Sexy, fun, “tastefully erotic” with plenty of irony and humor. I expected the usual — yawn — porn, which is too ubiquitous to be interesting anymore, unless done with art and wit, like this site/blog/whatever. Pleasantly, teasingly surprised.

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  5. cb

    I see that we both have b&w tuxedo cats. 🙂 Is your’s a boy or girl?

    Also, I see I’m not the first person to say so, but your gravitar photo is seriously hot? sweet? cute? sexy? red? color-coordinated? intriguing? alluring? friendly? naughty? fun-loving? all of the above?

    I like it

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  6. dreamlanddancing

    Yeeee-Gads! Do we ever have a lot in common…interests, expressions, influences…even Doug Adaqms…and Betty Boop? Anonymity is great…so I won’t dwell on why I think we may live within some proximity of each other (due to a passing reference you made)…or perhaps not…we are definitely members of several of the same “communities” (many of which are not necessarily near each other)…perhaps I wax too obscurely for too long…I common fault of mine, I’m told….
    I really do enjoy your work…I will be Bach.
    Respectfully,
    Chazz

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    1. Mrs Fever Post author

      You be Bach. I’ll be… Me.

      As for obscure waxing, I think I’d prefer to remain au naturale. I’m not into pain.

      Thanks for stopping by, Chazz. :]

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  7. Ret MP

    so you are paying the money to self host. good.
    so is this why there is no way to just click a + and “follow” and instead I have to go thru a subscription service?? via email…so you won’t show up in my “reader” anymore?
    Don’t get me wrong, i get the move, i just wish wordpress would man up and help a girl out with some transparency and ease when choosing what she gets to read…Ret

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    1. mrsfever Post author

      I *should* show up in your reader still. If it’s being stubborn, please copy/paste the hyperlink (https://mrsfever.com) into your ‘blogs I follow’ management page (in the lefthand column of your Reader if you’re on a PC). It will then show up in your reader as normal. 🙂

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